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Fuzzable Blogs: April 30th – Decisions

Decisions

So, I think I’m going to use this months blog post to have a good old rant!

A rant about someone who, lately, has been driving me insane; causing me all kinds of hassle and grief.

I want to like this person, I really do. Everyday I wipe the slate that is our relationship clean, start a fresh, and I really do try my best to be kind and friendly towards them.

So who is this person I hear you ask?.. well, I’ll tell you who it is… it’s…

ME.

I am LITERALLY driving myself CRAZY lately, because, for reasons completely unbeknown to me, I have totally lost the ability to make any kind of decision.

And I’m talking about the SIMPLEST of decisions here, like what to have for lunch? What to do at the weekend? Which DVD do I want to watch? Which sweatshirt do I wear? Should I go away for the Bank Holiday? What time do I want to go to the cinema? Should I go tonight or tomorrow? Which seat do I want to sit in?

Right now, I am the definition of ridiculous.

Decisions are the hardest thing to make, especially when it is a choice between where you should be and where you want to be.

Decisions, Decisions, Decisions…

I’ll admit, I’ve always been somewhat indecisive. I’d love to allow myself to be a bit more care free and spontaneous, but for some reason it’s hard for me to throw caution to the wind and do exactly what I want, when I want.

I overthink things, I over-plan and lately I seem to question every single, little, insignificant idea that pops into my brain, making it impossible to make any kind of rational decision. I think this is partly because I’m a control freak and partly because I like to know what I’m doing and where I’m going because I have a fear of things, places and situations I’m unfamiliar with.

Having said that, I hate to feel like I’m missing out, curiosity can get the better of me and somethings are a no brainer, and if there’s something I’m totally into doing, then I’ll make a decision a less than 2 seconds flat and I’ll be out the door, on my way!

So, Fuzzable readers, I’m throwing this one back to you, I need your help to get me out of this silly rut that I’m in! How are you guys at making decisions? Are you carefree and easy when it comes to making plans? Or do you second guess all of your options and ultimately have a nightmare deciding anything?

HELP ME OUT!!

Comment below any ideas of tips you have, I’d be really interested to hear your views.

 

 

Written by philip_logan

I love music, I love dance, I love movies, I love fashion, I love... love. I'm obsessed with London, I want to live in New York, I take Instagram way too seriously and I believe that one day, things will be better. Follow me on Instagram and Twitter @philip_logan

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